阿公&阿嫲

平时我们只是每星期的周末回家两天，陪阿嫲和阿公的时间也不多。当然，看到的也不多。上星期回家乡住了一星期，当个乖孙女，趁着假期陪陪家里两老。那整个星期我全天候贴身陪着阿公和阿嫲，跟进跟出...

每一天，阿公都会载着阿嫲，从家里到芙蓉的治疗中心做物理治疗。那段他们每天必走的路程，最少要半小时。也许是走惯了，又或许是他们根本不能埋怨，阿公从来都没觉得这样来回很累，因为他知道，阿嫲中风后，必须勤劳做运动才能松松关节，不让关节和肌肉退化。也因为他知道，阿嫲平时因为行动不便，很少会愿意出去走走，怕拖累别人，而在治疗中心里，都是一班年纪相同，情况相同的伙伴，至少她能有机会跟他们聊聊天，有机会出门逛逛...我陪他们去治疗中心的那一个星期，发现阿嫲在那里算是最勤劳的一个了，她真的，很想快点好起来。中心常有举行小活动，像是去市场逛逛，或去公园跑跑，又或者在户外玩些小游戏。照片里都有阿公阿嫲的样子。很庆幸，他们都愿意参与大家...

其实阿嫲常抱怨阿公的不是，说他很少在家，爱往外跑，所以她也只是一个人在家无聊。真的，阿公下午很少在家超多一个小时。每天从芙蓉回来后，他就会去园里载工人回来，又或是去街上拿饲料养鸡鸭，再不然就是去大伯家拿晚餐的菜...也许阿公喜欢热闹，偶尔上街时会停下找朋友喝茶聊天，但我也宁愿相信，他是为了家里奔波。辛苦把一大堆鸡鸭养得肥肥胖胖，目的就只是要等在大日子时，大家都回家了，可以宰来让我们有大餐吃。榴莲园里的工作一直没停止过，阿公总是亲力亲为（阿嫲还没中风时，就他们两老亲力亲为）不管多累，他还是坚持要继续种榴莲、山竹、龙眼等一大堆水果，为的就是让我们这些幸福的子子孙孙回家时，有机会尝到自己家的水果。有时我看着阿公进园里跌倒，或在晒椰渣是受伤，都会一边帮他搽药，一边偷偷觉得心疼，为他担心...

阿公阿嫲最疼就是我了，我也常找机会跟他们聊天说说话。我永远都不会忘记，我和阿公或阿嫲躺在房间里一起讲话的画面和感觉。他们总爱重复说着同样的故事，而且话题都离不开那六个儿女。阿嫲说着以前家里还很穷时，她是怎样带着小瓜们挨过的；说着那时候，爸爸和几个兄弟姐妹如何乖巧懂事，让他们也觉得很安慰；说着当她听到爸爸第一个成功进到大学读书时，多么的高兴...阿公呢，就说他以前如何跟那时候的马来官员有很好的交情，还能帮到爸爸和大姑的到大学的位子，阿公为此真的很高兴，很光荣；说着那时候他当警察时的威水事；说着他看到几个大孙们都很乖巧也很懂事，觉得很满足；说着他多么希望能等到我毕业的那一天，看我戴四方帽；说着他多么希望能看到我找到一位疼我的男朋友，一位像爸爸一样好的男人，然后看到我结婚，看到我幸福...

曾经有一次，阿公很灰心地跟我说，有时觉得活着很累，想早点离开。那时我的心痛得眼泪都快流出来了。那时候，也许阿嫲因为行动不便脾气比较躁，他们比较压力吧...这一趟回去，阿公常跟我说，做人不要太计较，看开一点，心情也会比较轻松。我阿公在哪里都能睡得着，什么时候都能睡得着，他说是因为他没想太多，没烦恼太多。呵呵

我有时会悄悄问自己，不知现在阿嫲阿公之间还有年轻时对对方的爱吗？还是早已经随着时间，仅剩习惯对方的存在了？很难答吧...但现在，我看到了，也感觉到了，他们对对方的在乎，依然是那么的深...

阿公性格比较温，阿嫲脾气比较硬。可是，我觉得，心里的那份爱，都是一样的。

先说说阿嫲吧...

她最讨厌他驾车时飞很快。与其说讨厌，不如说担心。好担心他会不小心出事，毕竟那么老了。别说她，有时我在车后座都会心惊胆跳。

她常碎碎念，说他整天不在家，在家不是看戏就是睡觉。有时也会说回N年前的事情，说他以前很爱赌，不顾家。若心里不在乎的话，会不爽，会碎碎念吗？

她知道他喜欢吃什么。有时出门时交待阿公买材料回家，自己就在厨房忙半天，自己行动不便下不了手，就在旁用讲的教工人煮，出来的味道也不错哦！吃饭时，看到他吃得津津有味，那天晚上还加了一大碗饭，她很高兴地指着他笑...

那阿公呢？

每天从治疗中心回到家后，阿嫲会进房小睡一两个小时。这时候，在出门前，他会先亲手绞一大杯的鲜橙汁，细心的拿盖子盖上，放进冰箱里，等她醒来时就马上能喝到冰冰凉凉的鲜橙汁。不是用绞果汁机，而是那需要很用力才能绞出橙汁的容器。那天他弄了两杯，一杯给我，足足七粒橙，弄得他满身是汗。能不感动吗？阿公从来，都不会弄给他自己喝。不知是因为不喜欢喝，还是想把橙留给阿嫲喝?

她行动不方便，出门时一直很怕会跌倒。我在时是我在旁扶着阿嫲，平时嘛，阿公会很习惯的，稳稳地牵着她的手；穿鞋时，走路时，上下楼梯时，都是这样。

吵架时他会忍着。偶尔不服气当然一定会有的，但之后跟我静静聊天时，他总会很温柔的说，“其实你阿嫲很不错的，只是有时脾气比较暴躁一点罢了。她很疼你们，又很会顾家，看她把孩子们都教得那么乖。她最厉害煮东西了，什么都会煮，什么糕点都会做，而且比外边餐馆的还好吃。她没有读过书，但什么都会，什么语言都讲得很流利......”

我想说，

这就是爱

这就是老夫老妻

这就是我的阿公阿嫲

我永远永远，

都会爱着他们

疼着他们

记得他们说的每一句话

为我做过的每一件事...

微 :)

haha. this blog had been abandoned for such a long time...AGAIN...

anyway, just...HI!!!and ohya, i finished my final exam already...

regards,

kaiwei :)

Phuket Trip 20~23/12/2009 (Part 2)

3rd day (22/12/2009)

heading to Phi Phi Island!!

this is posted upon request, by kaiwei of course. haha

the two fellas on my right look NOOB. seriously, NOOB! haha

the beaches in phuket are all so clean and white and nice and romantic and....simply amazing...

erm... we were trying to act as the beach umbrella.

when we first arrived PHI PHI island.

*my dear pi family members, i didn't know before that there is one island named under our family name, haha*

we didn't visit a lot of places on the 3rd day. we were travelling on boat most of the time. went snorkelling. then went for thailand massage at night. enjoyed ourselves during the massage so didn't capture any photos. but... i wonder whether mummy enjoyed the 2hours time? i was beside her that night. any facial expressions that you can think of when someone is in pain, i saw them all on mummy's face in that 2 hours. i tried not to distract the massage-lady, so i tried not to look at mummy, but still failed sometimes. haha.

4th day (23/12/2009)

few photos captured along the beach and street just beside our hotel. we actually woke up early in the morning to have a last day walk at the place. later in the afternoon we went for city tour on the island. bought many many many stuffs, and visited few nice places as well.

er... our dearest mummy is actually trying to pose like joker man, because the show batman returns was screened on tv for like...3 times during our 4 days trip there.. zzz

saw this cute little statue on our way back hotel, and everyone decided to pose like him XD

LOOKS LIKE banyak handsome hor? ZzZ.. photo only... haha

went to 3 famous temples in phuket. forget what are the names though. quite nice, saw 舍利子 also. hope everything i wished comes true~ ^^

the southest point of phuket island. that scenery there was super beautiful. super super beautiful. i am sure it feels super super right to make it a romantic destination to date. boys and girls out there, can start planning to pay a visit with your couple here. hehe...

few posting photos were taken upon request. our tour guide 阿华 got quite excited being our photographer that afternoon. lousy post though. i know i'm not photogenic enough la. lol :P

finally, time to go back home. phuket airport is so much smaller compared to KLIA. haha *proud*

that's it la...i think. a little bit of photos and description on my phuket trip previously. sorry for delaying the 2nd part of the post for sooooo long. haha. lazy+laZY+LAZY.

anyway, good night! ^^

cheers,

kaiwei :)

Phuket Trip 20~23/12/2009

1st day (20/12/2009)

parked our cars at putrajaya and went KLIA by train. 2 KIDS too bored waiting at the station, so decided to SS a bit.

*pollution-free! so please walk, don't use train!!*

reached KLIA. nice aeroplanes modules.

little brother with the big plane behind him.

here we are! phuket! dinner at one of the hotel before we check in. here is the best part. i love all these christmas decorations! ops, i'm trapped in a small little blink blink house XD

the very-big xmas tree.

next station is JUNGCEYLON. looks nice, sounds nice. it's a shopping mall in phuket. and its really big! there is few wings in total. and we only managed to linger in one wing. then tired ad. haha

sweet old lovers taking photo together with the sweet little dolphin...

er... don't know what caption to put. "That's Siam?"

the petaling street! ops, is phuket street. a lot of humans, a lot of hot chics waiting for massage customers (well, i don't know whether they are really going in for MASSAGE), a lot of bars and pubs, a lot of 'red furs' (translate them into hokkien please)

in my previous previous previous post i mentioned that i was hoping to have a birthday cake on my birthday isn't it? haha. too bad i still didn't get one at last. but i still feel contented. really contented. because my parents understood and remembered and tried to get me a piece bday cake, its just that stupid jungceylon don't even have a secret recipe (or maybe we haven't walk to the little corner since it's so huge)

2nd day (21/12/2009)

went to don't-know-what-its-name cave in the morning.

long long sleeping buddha. the one in phuket looks thinner than the sleeping buddha that i always know... haha

another view in the cave.

ladies and gentleman, boys and girls, we are now heading to...james bond island.

on the way there, let's have a nice visit to phuket's famous 红树林. erm... what do we call it in english? forget the word. c'mon, it's 3am in the morning now!

here we are. James Bond Island. erm.. the actual name of the island is... khao tapoo. or something like this. haha.

another nice sea-view from the island.

a big rock holding another big rock. our tour guide mentioned the thailand name of this rock, but i forget. a few others names are like 一线天(because we can see the sky in a line between the rocks)、情人石(because the two rocks relying each other represent lovers relying each other, i guess)...

hold it! don't let it fall or we'll all smash to become tuna!

i swear, its HEAVY! XD

a group photo with the other family from malacca on 2nd day.

we had our lunch at one of the muslim island in phuket. andaman restaurant as you can see from the photo. the seafoods are not so fresh though.

at night, we went to watch ah gua show. simon cabaret. a bit of camwhore before we enter the hall ^^

*SIMON~ SiMoN~ siMOn caBarET~~*

we noticed thailand-ians respect their king very much. well... sorry to say, i don't even know how's our agung looks like. ops....

can't believe they are soooooooo pretty. (provided they don't speak >.<) can't believe they are all not 'real' also. hmmph....

saw that guy with white shirt? erm erm.. one of the performer that stands beside the LADY with black dress. he is sooooooooooo handsome. more handsome than......whoever you think he's handsome. too bad we didn't get a clearer shot on him. should have pay 40baht to take a photo with him de.... grrr...

actually we took tooooooooooo many photos along this 4 days 3 nights trip. 541 in total i guess. haha. quite impossible for me to post everything up here la. moreover, it's already 3am in the morning and i'm only on our 2nd day. with only 5 photos uploaded at once, and damn slow uploading rate because of the big resolution, i'll have to stay up until tomorrow morning if i want to finish them at once. haha. hmmph... i guess i'll need to continue the rest of the photos the other day. really have to sleep now. more photos are on their ways. stay tuned~ hehe

little panda,

kaiwei :)